What Does It Mean to Choose Your Spouse Every Day?
Choosing your spouse every day doesn't mean keeping them happy, avoiding conflict or losing yourself in the relationship. Learn what it can look like to choose each other through honesty, curiosity, invitations and the small moments that make up a marriage.
When Sex Feels Like a Chore: How to Move From Duty Back to Desire
When sex starts feeling like another thing on the to-do list, trying harder to want it usually isn’t the answer. Let’s look at how duty, pressure, responsive desire and the need to be a “good” spouse can quietly take over intimacy, and how curiosity, choice and play can help you find your way back to desire.
Responsive Desire: Why You May Not Want Sex Until You’ve Already Started
If you’ve ever wondered, “Why don’t I want sex until we’re already getting started?” there may be absolutely nothing unusual about your desire. You may simply experience responsive desire.